SatinSnow

She is not abandoned
She is one step at a time, sending herself away
On the day the relationship truly collapsed, there was no argument, only one message.
“What are you doing?”
He didn’t reply, not because he was busy, but because he was not in a hurry.
She stared at the screen, her heartbeat faster than the candlestick chart, so she added:
“I miss you so much.”
This is not a declaration of love; it’s the first shot of panic.
There is a cruel resonance effect in the crypto world.
When the market drops, people start to panic;
When people panic, relationships begin to add to their positions.
She watched her account’s floating loss while staring at the blank chat box.
So the messages started stacking up, like leverage.
“Can you understand me?”
“Why don’t you reply to my messages?”
“Am I bothering you?”
By this point, she was no longer waiting for him,
She was waiting for proof that she hadn’t been abandoned.
He finally replied.
“Just busy.”
Four words, no explanation, no emotion, no comfort.
She knew clearly in her heart that everything was already wrong.
But she chose to continue anyway.
Because in the crypto world and in love,
the biggest fear isn’t loss, it’s giving up.
She began to mask her humility with maturity.
“You’re really so dismissive.”
“No worries, you go ahead and be busy.”
“Get some rest early.”
It looks decent, but in reality, she was gradually giving up her dignity.
Just like knowing the trend is bad but telling yourself:
Wait a little longer, maybe it will rebound?
The real death zone is ahead.
She started asking about identities.
“Who is she?”
“Do you really like me?”
“You weren’t like this before.”
She scrolled through chat logs, promises, screenshots,
like flipping through whitepapers in a bear market, trying to prove: I didn’t get the wrong person at the start.
When she finally sent the last message, her hand was trembling:
“What is our relationship now?”
This relationship had actually been settled long ago.
She was just still adding to her positions alone.
The crypto world teaches you stop-loss, position management, risk control,
but no one tells you one thing:
People who keep adding to their positions in relationships,
end up in a worse situation than a margin call.
All those 15 sentences essentially mean only one thing:
“Can you prove that I am still worth being wanted?”
When you start talking like this, you are no longer in love,
you are begging for something that is leaving to turn back.
Remember this harsh truth: any relationship that requires you to repeatedly prove yourself,
has already stopped considering you as a core variable.
Just like price, once you start watching, questioning, fearing loss,
you are already in the position of being harvested.
She finally understood later.
It’s not that she’s not good enough; it’s that she’s using loss-averse thinking to talk about love.
A good relationship wouldn’t force you to send a whole set of self-deprecating messages.
Just like a good trade, it wouldn’t make you lose your dignity.
If you’ve been in the crypto world long enough, you’ve definitely seen this ending.
And maybe, you are the nameless person in the story.

After trading for over two years, I’ve discovered a harsh truth: people with less money are actually the most likely to blow themselves up.
Coming in with a few hundred or a few thousand USDT, all that’s on their mind is three words—All! In! Double!
Last month, I got a request for help. A girl working in design had saved up 80,000 USDT over two years, and now her account was down to just 13,000.
She asked me, “Is there still hope?”
I said yes, but only if you follow my advice.
**First thing: Don’t think about making money, think about surviving.**
I looked at her position screenshots—every trade was high leverage chaos. I told her directly, “Close everything.”
She hesitated, “Isn’t that selling at a loss?”
I said, “You’re bleeding right now—if you don’t stop it, what are you even thinking about?”
**Second thing: Set boundaries for yourself.**
I helped her set three hard rules:
- Split your principal into 10 parts, only use 1 part max per trade
- Lose 5% on a trade? Cut it immediately
- Up 30%? Withdraw half the profit
She thought it was too slow. I told her, “What you need right now isn’t speed, it’s to stop losing.”
**Third thing: Focus on just two assets.**
BTC and SOL, don’t look at anything else.
After BTC stabilized at 86,500, I told her to go long at 86,638 with 10% of her account. She kept asking if it would drop.
I said, “We’re not gambling on direction, just taking high-probability trades.”
Three days later, it pumped to 88,000, netting her 8,000 USDT on that trade.
SOL stabilized at 133, and she caught another wave. Her account went from 13,000 to 60,000 USDT.
She was so excited she cried, “Am I finally turning things around?”
I said, “The day you stopped reckless trading, you were already back on track.”
**The market doesn’t care if your principal is small, it cares if you’re impatient, reckless, or can’t admit mistakes.**
Small funds are actually an advantage—you can take small losses, adjust quickly, and don’t have heavy baggage.
People who turn things around don’t rely on luck—they know when to stay steady.
If you’re getting more chaotic and panicked as you lose—stop and learn to be steady first.

Get to know Perptual Futures! The secret to getting rich overnight.
In the crypto world, a day equals ten years in reality. This saying has led countless people to rush into the futures market with the fantasy of "overnight success," only to ultimately become the "fuel" for the exchanges. Today, I will strip away the glamorous facade of futures in the most straightforward way, making you understand: you are focused on the opportunity, while the exchange is focused on your capital.
🎲What is Perptual Futures? The "eternal version" of futures.
Perptual Futures, in essence, is a bet agreement without an expiration date. It is like you are "betting" with the market on whether the future price will go up or down. It is like a "futures" brother, but more exciting, with no "expiration date," allowing you to keep betting indefinitely.
👉 For example:
You predict the price of watermelon: you can "go long" or "go short".
If you buy long, you think the watermelon will rise from 1 yuan to 2 yuan. You first "agree" to buy in at 1 yuan, and when it rises to 2 yuan, you sell it, making a profit of 1 yuan.
If you want to short sell, you think the watermelon will drop from 1 yuan to 0.5 yuan. You first borrow a watermelon, sell it immediately at 1 yuan, and then buy it back at 0.5 yuan when it drops to that price to return it. In this buy-sell transaction, you make a profit of 0.5 yuan.
No matter if the market rises or falls, you have the opportunity to make money as long as you guess the right direction.
Everyone knows about spot trading. For example, if a watermelon costs 10 yuan, you have to pay 10 yuan to buy one.
You can use "leverage" for contracts. If you use 10x leverage, you only need to put down 1 dollar (this is called margin), and you can leverage a watermelon worth 10 dollars!
😈 When you earn: The watermelon rises to 11 yuan (up 10%), you use 1 yuan of principal, earn 1 yuan, return on investment 100%!
💀 When you lose money: The watermelon drops to 9 yuan (a 10% drop), and your 1 yuan principal is completely wiped out (liquidated).
Leverage can help you earn quickly, but it can also lead to faster losses. It amplifies your gains, and even more so your risks.
It often has a phenomenon called "pinning", where the price suddenly drops and then returns, or suddenly spikes and then returns. Your principal will only be like this; as long as the price even touches your liquidation price for just a moment, it will instantly get liquidated.
🧠 3 Life-Saving Concepts You Must Understand
Contracts are divided into two modes, one is called full position and the other is called isolated position.
🛡️In full margin, you imagine your margin (principal) as all the money in your wallet, which makes your margin relatively large and less likely to get liquidated. Because you have a strong principal (all the money in the wallet is supporting), you can withstand greater price fluctuations. For example, if one order incurs a floating loss, the profits from other orders or the unused money in your wallet can be used to cover it, allowing you to hold on longer. But! If it blows up, it all blows up! If the market moves completely against you, leading to eventual liquidation, then all the money in your entire contract account (the whole wallet) will be lost at once.
🎯 Isolated margin means that you take a fixed amount of money (for example, 100 yuan) from your total wallet as the principal for a betting round. Whether you win or lose this round, it only counts within that 100 yuan. Even if you perform poorly and face liquidation, you will only lose that 100 yuan you put out. The other funds in your wallet remain safe and sound. The downside is that the principal is small and can easily lead to liquidation. Since you only took out 100 yuan to play, even a slight price fluctuation in the opposite direction may exceed the capacity of that 100 yuan, and you could be forced to close your position (liquidation) quickly. This method is suitable for beginners to test the waters or for placing multiple bets in different directions simultaneously.
Another concept is the funding rate. The funding rate is one of the most confusing concepts in Perptual Futures, but its core logic is actually quite simple.
Imagine you are in a casino, at a betting table for "guessing price movements": those betting "up" (bulls) sit on one side, and those betting "down" (bears) sit on the other side. Normally, there should be about the same number of people on both sides, making the game quite balanced.
But suddenly, there was a piece of good news, and most people rushed to bet on "rise". At this point, the casino owner discovered a problem:
If the price keeps rising, those betting on "up" will make a fortune, while those betting on "down" will lose everything and exit the market. Over the long term, no one will bet on "down" at the gambling table, and this game will collapse.
What should I do?
The casino owner came up with a method: he charged a small "balance fee" to the majority side (those betting on "up") and then distributed it to the minority side (those betting on "down").
Why do this?
1. Encourage the weak: Give a subsidy to those who bet on "down" so that they don't leave and continue playing.
2. Reminder to the strong: Tell those who bet on "up": "You are too enthusiastic, calm down a bit, holding this position has its costs."
The "balance fee" refers to the 【funding rate】 in the contract.
How does the funding rate work in the contract?
If there are far more bullish (long) participants in the market than bearish (short) participants, then the longs will have to pay the shorts. Conversely, if there are far more bearish (short) participants than bullish (long) participants, then the shorts will have to pay the longs. Typically, settlements occur every 8 hours (e.g., at 0:00, 8:00, and 16:00 UTC).
How is the fee determined?
It is automatically calculated by a formula, mainly looking at the difference between the contract price and the spot price, as well as the ratio of long to short positions in the market. You don't have to calculate it yourself; the exchange will display it.
If the funding rate has been consistently positive and very high, it indicates that the market is extremely bullish, and everyone is going long. You need to be cautious, as a correction may be imminent. If the funding rate is negative, it indicates that the market is very bearish, and everyone is going short, which could be a signal for a rebound.
So, next time you see the funding rate, just understand it as "market equilibrium tax" or "emotional overheating cooling fee"!
🚨How to profit from it? If you still want to give it a try, remember these 6 iron rules: surviving is more important than earning.
First, do not hold positions.
Holding onto a position is the first hurdle that makes everyone fail in the market. You think the market will come back; yes, it has come back a few times, but that one time it doesn't will be enough to reset your life. I've seen too many so-called veterans who have been in the game for 10 years, and by the last wave of the market, they were left with nothing. It's not that they don't know how to trade; it's that they can't bear to admit defeat. The result? They are never qualified to talk about trading again.
Remember, the market is not afraid of your stop loss; it is afraid of your stubbornness. A stop loss is not cowardice; it is a way to save your own life.
Second, high-frequency operations
Some people feel itchy all over if they don't place an order for a day. The market hasn't moved, but their hands are already moving. You think you are trading, but in fact, you are looking for death. A real professional trader may only make a few trades in a day for short-term, and just two or three trades a week for long-term, but each time is calculated down to the bone. The higher the frequency, the denser the mistakes, and in the end, it all relies on emotional trading. To put it bluntly, it's not about losing money, it's about self-consumption. What the market loves most is people like you who have itchy hands.
Third, addicted to watching the market.
Watching the market every day is not diligence, it's anxiety. You think you are in control of the market, but in reality, you are being led by the trends. Those who truly understand the rhythm set their stop-loss and then turn off the screen; the market is not something you can just keep an eye on to predict, and profits are not something you can just conjure up. The longer you watch, the more chaotic your emotions become, your hands shake more, and in the end, your trading is driven by impulse, not logic.
Fourth, always manage risk with a backup position.
Recommended main position: The reserve position should be configured at a ratio of 7:3 or 8:2, and additional positions should only be added during trend reversals or when there are rebound signals, with each addition not exceeding 1/3 of the reserve position. After making a profit, first fill the reserve position, and never use it to increase leverage. With this safety net, you can avoid a total liquidation at once, maintain a stable mindset, and enable you to survive longer in the market.
Fifth, reject high leverage.
High leverage is the number one culprit of contract liquidation! Don't touch leverage above 10 times. With 5 times leverage, a 20% drop leads to liquidation, while with 10 times, it only takes a 10% drop. Staying alive gives you a chance.
Sixth, technical analysis is the only reliance.
Fundamentals: Pay attention to the interest rate cut cycle and policy trends (such as the market after Trump's election).
Technical Models: K-line Patterns (Head and Shoulders Bottom, Box Structure), Indicators (MACD, Moving Average System).
Position Management: Each order's stop loss should not exceed 5% of the principal, and the profit and loss ratio should be at least 1:1.5.
Recently, the black swan event on October 11 resulted in a $20 billion epic liquidation, affecting 1.6 million people.
The price of BTC dropped from 122,000 USD to a low of 102,000 USD, with a maximum decline of over 16%; the price of ETH fell from 4,340 USD to a low of 3,400 USD, with a maximum decline of over 22%; mainstream cryptocurrencies like Solana (SOL) and XRP experienced declines approaching 30%. It has become normal for altcoins to drop over 90%. Among those who leveraged and traded contracts, 98% have been liquidated. Many people who were flaunting profit screenshots just the day before have vanished the next day, even stopping updates in their social circles.
The crypto world is not short of opportunities; what it lacks are people who can last long.
Before you press the "Open Position" button, ask yourself:
Are you in control of the contract, or is the contract in control of your greed?
Exchanges don't need to beat you; they just need to wait for you to self-destruct.
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