From this perspective, marriage has almost become a business deal.

This is also the value concept for many people who go on blind dates.
Everything is based on rationality—meeting the conditions and then pairing up.
From a purely rational standpoint, there's no problem.
But the issue is that people are not purely rational.
That's why most marriages are quite poor.
Personally, I insist on "better to be single than in a bad marriage."
Marriage is not a necessity.
I have friends who are single but have been together for a long time, even longer than some who are married.
So,
I hope everyone can find a way of life that suits them.
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GN