Not entirely because they lack ability or can't endure hardship
I think many people underestimate the psychological destruction that poverty can cause. Someone will always say, "It's because of the family background."
You can't always blame the original family; as children, you need to change yourself
But the reality is that opportunities are fewer, resources are limited. These are just the visible problems
Beyond that, poverty also greatly affects interpersonal relationships. Families with good conditions will have all kinds of people flattering them. No matter how wrong the child is or how unpleasant their words, no one dares to confront them face-to-face; at most, they gossip behind their back
Children from poor families tend to find fault everywhere, criticizing everything, regardless of what outsiders say
This society is very realistic. Being poor means everything you do is wrong. Some people advise others not to blame their original family, then comfortably accept the support from their family, relying on their parents' help. In fact, many people are already struggling just to survive; it's not something that can be summed up in a few light words by certain individuals
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Children from poor families tend to remain poor
Not entirely because they lack ability or can't endure hardship
I think many people underestimate the psychological destruction that poverty can cause. Someone will always say, "It's because of the family background."
You can't always blame the original family; as children, you need to change yourself
But the reality is that opportunities are fewer, resources are limited. These are just the visible problems
Beyond that, poverty also greatly affects interpersonal relationships. Families with good conditions will have all kinds of people flattering them. No matter how wrong the child is or how unpleasant their words, no one dares to confront them face-to-face; at most, they gossip behind their back
Children from poor families tend to find fault everywhere, criticizing everything, regardless of what outsiders say
This society is very realistic. Being poor means everything you do is wrong. Some people advise others not to blame their original family, then comfortably accept the support from their family, relying on their parents' help. In fact, many people are already struggling just to survive; it's not something that can be summed up in a few light words by certain individuals