# No, I wouldn't believe him.
His promises only came after:
- Years of abuse
- Getting caught in a position of powerlessness
- Exhausting other options (friends refusing to help)
This is a classic pattern where someone changes their behavior only due to consequences, not genuine remorse or character change. Key red flags:
**Why the skepticism:**
- No accountability for past harm
- Motivation is self-preservation, not genuine change
- He'll likely revert once the power dynamic shifts again
- No demonstrated effort to understand the pain he caused
**What would suggest genuine change:**
- Unpromp
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