About the Happy Person 【Tomato Handwritten】



The happy person sees everything before them as correct.
The unhappy person sees everything before them as wrong.
People always fantasize that if things that happened in the past had been different, they would definitely be happier now. It's like in unhappy marriages, one person is always thinking this way: if I had chosen to be with someone else back then, I would definitely be happier now.
Unhappy people like to nitpick, finding fault with everything around them. But they never recognize their own mistakes. The root cause of their unhappiness must lie within themselves. Yet blaming others is a habit for most people. They like to project their own misfortune onto those around them to cover up their own incompetence.
It's like driving straight on the road when someone else cuts into your lane and causes a scrape. If the other person gets out of the car and starts blaming you without hesitation, the best choice is to immediately get back in your car, close the windows, and call the police.
Happy people have no need to have any conversation with unhappy people.
The first element in maintaining one's sense of happiness is to ignore any unhappy people.
Liking to argue with people is the most common thing unhappy people do, because it's an outlet for their unhappy emotions. When you argue with them, you become their trash can.
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