In women's eyes, there's no distinction between good and bad men,

only strong and weak.

Introversion = weakness
Thin-skinned = weakness
Timid = weakness
Can't handle social situations = weakness
Led around by women = weakness
Restrained behavior = showing weakness
Getting flustered easily = showing weakness
Naive junior = weakness
No ulterior motives = weakness
Lacking tactics = weakness
Giving too much = weakness

In their eyes, weakness is original sin.
If you're not strong, even breathing counts as a mistake.